To be honest, I thought all those one off dates would somehow lead to marriage. I thought that three years of the single life and being super picky about who I spent time with would help me refine my tastes… Read More ›
Single Life
5 Key Dating Tips for Single Women
How much success have you had in your dating life? Is it rewarding? Fun? Have you found love? First off, contrary to what many women have conditioned themselves to believe, there are tons of great men out there. And still,… Read More ›
A Four Year Journey – The Stories I’ve Told
It’s my anniversary! Exactly four years ago, I gave birth to this blog, and we’ve had this weird relationship ever since. I’m always doing this dance between keeping my life private, and over sharing. Between sharing my journey and keeping… Read More ›
A Few Things I Miss About the Single Life
Is it too premature for me to write about missing the single life? Not missing it as in – I wanna go back there. I had a good 3.5 year run at it. I mean missing it as in admitting… Read More ›
My Promise to “Him”
After three plus years of the single life, I’ve finally met a man who I want to keep all to myself. He feels like a kindred soul. Was that the most revealing thing I’ve ever said on this blog??… Read More ›
Well, well, well – Idris Elba or Nah?
I almost didn’t show up last night. He lives in Europe. I live in the states. A chance meeting brought us together in Manhattan during his business trip, but what could possibly come of it? My thoughts were scattered :… Read More ›
Mr. Dallas Wants to Pursue Me
We met online almost a year ago. My first thoughts centered on the hyperpigmentation on his cheekbones, his short neck, and tiny, pursed lips. His head and shoulders seemed to meet with not even a couple of inches in between…. Read More ›
I Think I Might Be a Man Lover
The single life goes by quick! Three years, and counting. And that’s a fact! I can’t really sum the experience up in one line (yet), but I can say that life, for me, is all about transformation and growth…. Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 