Question of the day: I went to the bank earlier today to handle some business for my mother. The Relationship Manager was CUTE. I’m makeup free today, but of course he still had that mouth-wide-open look in his eyes. He… Read More ›
Single Life
The Lowest Rung of Men – Cowards and Bitches
PART I My first instinct was to send her a picture of her husband’s penis, but then I discovered that I deleted those text messages as soon as I received them. I had no use. (Just being honest.) Or pictures… Read More ›
Still Dating – The Latest Latest
Lately I’ve kept you guys completely out of the loop as far as my dating life. No worries. There haven’t been any fireworks. At all. Here’s a brief rundown. I wrote about Nigel in this piece. Based on my fantasy… Read More ›
hi 2014!!
I hope you all brought in the NEW YEAR the best way you saw fit! Welcome 2014! Thank you all for rocking with me. I blogged more in 2013 than I ever did in my whole life!! Shared quite a… Read More ›
What Makes A Man or Woman Special
Is Amazing Worth Waiting For ? I posed that question some time ago, and most people, myself included, answered YES. In reading Mars and Venus on a Date (Again), I realized that men and women may take different emotional routes to… Read More ›
The Complexity of Black Women
I embrace my blackness, and my femininity, and the entire fabric that makes me who I am. My flaws, as well as my strengths. I enjoy being a black woman. Mara Brock Akil inspires me – to strengthen my writing… Read More ›
Kissing On a First Date. What’s YOUR Norm?
Some people think my “rule” of not kissing on a first date is a bit far-fetched, but hey, that’s my norm. I’m told that most women do much more than that on first dates, so no man is going to… Read More ›
His Waiting Place (Not About Last Night)
I woke up this morning with my hands in my panties Both hands clutching my fatty pube I was so controlled at dinner, keeping my eyes focused on his. Smiling on cue But really I couldn’t help it Wondering what… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 