Is it too premature for me to write about missing the single life? Not missing it as in – I wanna go back there. I had a good 3.5 year run at it. I mean missing it as in admitting… Read More ›
Personal Stories
The Single Life | Is It Over For Me?
I promised the man I’m dating that I wouldn’t blog about him or us – and I’m sticking to that… But I’m in the midst of a dilemma that I need to let you all in on. Notice I’ve been… Read More ›
My Promise to “Him”
After three plus years of the single life, I’ve finally met a man who I want to keep all to myself. He feels like a kindred soul. Was that the most revealing thing I’ve ever said on this blog??… Read More ›
Well, well, well – Idris Elba or Nah?
I almost didn’t show up last night. He lives in Europe. I live in the states. A chance meeting brought us together in Manhattan during his business trip, but what could possibly come of it? My thoughts were scattered :… Read More ›
Why I Write
I ask myself daily: Why am I writing this? Is anyone really reading it? Is this what I should be writing? Am I over sharing? Who cares? What will I make of all this? And then I keep writing, for… Read More ›
Mr. Dallas Wants to Pursue Me
We met online almost a year ago. My first thoughts centered on the hyperpigmentation on his cheekbones, his short neck, and tiny, pursed lips. His head and shoulders seemed to meet with not even a couple of inches in between…. Read More ›
Shit That Happens Behind the Scenes
It’s 11:20pm, and because I signed up for NaBloPoMo (agreeing to write one post a day), I’m struggling to think of a topic to discuss with you and share it by 12 midnight. There’s always the shit that goes on… Read More ›
Bat Shit Crazy – The Road to Healing
When was the last time you went “bat shit” crazy for someone? What did you do? Go into stalker mode? (Not hard to do with social media.) Key someone’s car? Pee on your ex’s personal belongings? Well now that… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 