“Have you ever dated anybody other than black men?” I’m learning that’s a pretty normal question in the dating world — from black men, because that’s all I’ve ever dated. When I tell them I haven’t, I get strange looks…. Read More ›
Dating Stories
How to Handle Honest Men | 5 Tips For Women
Remember the three men I met last week? They turned out to be HONEST in their intentions, of all things. I’ve been saying honesty is the best game for a while now. (If only more men took heed.) Here’s the… Read More ›
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›
Why Men Loathe Desperate Women
“Women are so desperate and aggressive these days. It’s sad. They wanna latch on after two weeks and start staking their claim. Bringing up the future and marriage. I like to be the one who’s doing the pursuing.” … Read More ›
Creepy Ass Liar – No Date
It’s no surprise that I met a guy, right? Where else but Times Square, New York City? Of course I was kinda mean mugging because it’s cold as hell. (Weather kicking my ass.) When Clyde approached, my gut told me… Read More ›
The Lowest Rung of Men – Cowards and Bitches
PART I My first instinct was to send her a picture of her husband’s penis, but then I discovered that I deleted those text messages as soon as I received them. I had no use. (Just being honest.) Or pictures… Read More ›
Still Dating – The Latest Latest
Lately I’ve kept you guys completely out of the loop as far as my dating life. No worries. There haven’t been any fireworks. At all. Here’s a brief rundown. I wrote about Nigel in this piece. Based on my fantasy… Read More ›
What Makes A Man or Woman Special
Is Amazing Worth Waiting For ? I posed that question some time ago, and most people, myself included, answered YES. In reading Mars and Venus on a Date (Again), I realized that men and women may take different emotional routes to… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 