After three plus years of the single life, I’ve finally met a man who I want to keep all to myself. He feels like a kindred soul. Was that the most revealing thing I’ve ever said on this blog??… Read More ›
Romance
Well, well, well – Idris Elba or Nah?
I almost didn’t show up last night. He lives in Europe. I live in the states. A chance meeting brought us together in Manhattan during his business trip, but what could possibly come of it? My thoughts were scattered :… Read More ›
I Think I Might Be a Man Lover
The single life goes by quick! Three years, and counting. And that’s a fact! I can’t really sum the experience up in one line (yet), but I can say that life, for me, is all about transformation and growth…. Read More ›
Bat Shit Crazy – The Road to Healing
When was the last time you went “bat shit” crazy for someone? What did you do? Go into stalker mode? (Not hard to do with social media.) Key someone’s car? Pee on your ex’s personal belongings? Well now that… Read More ›
Choke Me and I’ll Choke Your Ass Back
Women being dominated in the bedroom
Need You | In the Crates 2012
The fact is – I need you I’m cursed with a propensity to love hard On my list of best things I never had I need you to answer my fucking phone calls It’s so simple, but it’s… Read More ›
Why Can’t I Just Love Black Men?
“Have you ever dated anybody other than black men?” I’m learning that’s a pretty normal question in the dating world — from black men, because that’s all I’ve ever dated. When I tell them I haven’t, I get strange looks…. Read More ›
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 