At least three men from my past consider me the one who got away. Among them are my first boyfriend who went to prison when I was 18. Altogether, he served 12 years (I was devastated for at least two)…. Read More ›
Emotional intimacy
Women on Dating – the 30’s Versus the 40’s!
The dating environment is often rocky. That’s a given. Whether you meet men online or in bars. But when you’re single and mingling, whether successful at it or not, the one thing you must always remember is you – are… Read More ›
I’m Officially a Mess
I was listening to Pandora last night, and this song came on. For a hot minute, I went into an emotional tailspin. Not a heaving, snot-dripping, ugly-face cry (well, maybe it was ), but nonetheless… And then I went on… Read More ›
A Few Things I Miss About the Single Life
Is it too premature for me to write about missing the single life? Not missing it as in – I wanna go back there. I had a good 3.5 year run at it. I mean missing it as in admitting… Read More ›
I Think I Might Be a Man Lover
The single life goes by quick! Three years, and counting. And that’s a fact! I can’t really sum the experience up in one line (yet), but I can say that life, for me, is all about transformation and growth…. Read More ›
Ferguson, MI | Expectations for Healing
How did I process the events of Ferguson, Missouri in terms of healing? I can’t say that I have. I read blogs and social media, and when I’m at work I glance at Bloomblerg TV in closed captions. But I… Read More ›
Bat Shit Crazy – The Road to Healing
When was the last time you went “bat shit” crazy for someone? What did you do? Go into stalker mode? (Not hard to do with social media.) Key someone’s car? Pee on your ex’s personal belongings? Well now that… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 