I swear this dating life has me skeptical as hell! It’s been so long since I had an interesting, fun conversation with a prospect. I’m usually half-listening while they ramble on about whatever. Enter Mr. Charming. He’s a 34 year… Read More ›
Dating
Mr. Dallas Wants to Pursue Me
We met online almost a year ago. My first thoughts centered on the hyperpigmentation on his cheekbones, his short neck, and tiny, pursed lips. His head and shoulders seemed to meet with not even a couple of inches in between…. Read More ›
I Think I Might Be a Man Lover
The single life goes by quick! Three years, and counting. And that’s a fact! I can’t really sum the experience up in one line (yet), but I can say that life, for me, is all about transformation and growth…. Read More ›
Need You | In the Crates 2012
The fact is – I need you I’m cursed with a propensity to love hard On my list of best things I never had I need you to answer my fucking phone calls It’s so simple, but it’s… Read More ›
Why Can’t I Just Love Black Men?
“Have you ever dated anybody other than black men?” I’m learning that’s a pretty normal question in the dating world — from black men, because that’s all I’ve ever dated. When I tell them I haven’t, I get strange looks…. Read More ›
Men and Dating – Pet Peeve
Dear men, If you ask a woman out, make some effort to come up with a PLAN. Do not put the onus on Her. Minus one thousand points if I ask where we’re meeting/ what we’re doing and the… Read More ›
How to Handle Honest Men | 5 Tips For Women
Remember the three men I met last week? They turned out to be HONEST in their intentions, of all things. I’ve been saying honesty is the best game for a while now. (If only more men took heed.) Here’s the… Read More ›
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 