In two and a half years of sporadic dating, I’ve had lots of conversation and learned plenty about men, and a lot about myself. I decided to share a few common questions I get on dates. Here we go. 1…. Read More ›
Dating Standards
How to Feel Your Need for a Man & Find Lasting Love
Naturally, I was sitting in bed on a Sunday night – reading, and crafting blog posts, because NaBloPoMo has me completely obsessed about posting something every single day for the month of November. Plus I was conversing with a friend… Read More ›
What Are You Looking For? —A Lovesong
I like a man who can take charge and be honest with me about what he’s looking for – in a woman, in a potential relationship, etc. I like to know his intentions. Just last night, I asked someone “What… Read More ›
Me On Perfectionism
Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life, and it is the main obstacle between you and a shitty first draft. I think perfectionism is based… Read More ›
No Stalkers Please!! – The Date That Never Happened
Call me hasty, but “Larry” had too many damn red flags for me. So, I’m standing on line at Caffe Bene in Times Square getting my usual spinach, chicken wrap. In walks this tall dark-skinned guy, with a sharp, sharp hairline… Read More ›
Hell No I’m Not Sending You No Damn Pic
“Can you send me a pic?” HELL NO! I’m really aggravated by this stupid request I get from guys. All the time. Via text message. I’m almost out of ways to respond nicely. But what I’m REALLY tempted to ask… Read More ›
Six Key Pieces of Dating Advice for Single Men
I’m sure there are at least a million dating advice articles out there for single men. Well consider this number one million and one. Having been single for a while, and having actively dated part of that time, I’ve made… Read More ›
First Date – What’s Your Take?
For the first time, I met a guy through a friend. Let me give you some more details on that. He’s 34 years old. African American… And although told me he was 5’11, I’m pretty sure he’s closer to 5’7… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 