I like a man who can take charge and be honest with me about what he’s looking for – in a woman, in a potential relationship, etc. I like to know his intentions.
Just last night, I asked someone “What are you looking for?” We’re gonna have conversation tonight, but I got to thinking: “What am I looking for?”
Here’s what I came up with on the fly:
Someone to compliment my life. A friend that I trust and enjoy being around. A supporter and confidant. Companionship. Undying passion. The kind that makes me long to merge my flesh and bones – and my soul with another human being, because we are already so connected on other levels.
Someone who gets me – and loves me despite, and in spite of my worst attributes. Me on my worst days. Someone who brings out the best in me. A level-headed listener who can keep me grounded in his honesty and weather the storms with me.
Most of all, I want someone who desires me equally – and even if his list of “What are you looking for?” is different from mine, he will find it hard to imagine his life without me in it – because I help make him a better man. We’re complimentary. Complete as individuals, but stronger together.
This level of self and partnership takes time to build. I want someone who has a shared interest in investing.
I wonder what this guy is going to say tonight! (I might have to update you all.)
Tell me. Am I dreaming? Are my glasses too rose-colored? Has anyone experienced this type of relationship? Is amazing worth waiting for? I think so.