I would imagine that if or when I’m really engaged, people in my (very small) circle would be happy for me. Actually, I’m sure they would. But, tbh (to be honest), we all know people who can only muster up… Read More ›
Advice
V is for “Vagina”
I got a Brazilian bikini wax for the first time last night. I love the results and I’ve already scheduled my next appointment! But wait, V is really for Valentine’s Day, right? And not “vagina.” Because today is February 14th?… Read More ›
Conditional Friends of the Opposite Sex
1) Age old question: Can heterosexual men and women be just friends? 2) Another question: Should people in committed partnerships have friends of the opposite gender? 3) Interesting one: Can two people who’ve been sexually active with one another be… Read More ›
Bat Shit Crazy – The Road to Healing
When was the last time you went “bat shit” crazy for someone? What did you do? Go into stalker mode? (Not hard to do with social media.) Key someone’s car? Pee on your ex’s personal belongings? Well now that… Read More ›
Advice for the Black Woman | Fitness Q&A with Mark Jenkins
“Diet hard!” Those are the words I hear when I think of celebrity fitness trainer and motivator Mark Jenkins, whom I recently had the honor of interviewing. Mark’s star clientele includes a roster of celebrities: Mary J. Blige, D’Angelo, P. Diddy, L.L…. Read More ›
How to Handle Honest Men | 5 Tips For Women
Remember the three men I met last week? They turned out to be HONEST in their intentions, of all things. I’ve been saying honesty is the best game for a while now. (If only more men took heed.) Here’s the… Read More ›
Why Men Loathe Desperate Women
“Women are so desperate and aggressive these days. It’s sad. They wanna latch on after two weeks and start staking their claim. Bringing up the future and marriage. I like to be the one who’s doing the pursuing.” … Read More ›
Creepy Ass Liar – No Date
It’s no surprise that I met a guy, right? Where else but Times Square, New York City? Of course I was kinda mean mugging because it’s cold as hell. (Weather kicking my ass.) When Clyde approached, my gut told me… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 