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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• Choosy Lover

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 27, 2016 • ( 2 )

  

  I may be hyper emotional; however, I just saw this on Pinterest and literally started to cry at my desk. So I thought I’d share. Happy Friday! Love on yourself this weekend. And on your lover too, if applicable. ❤

• I Give In

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 24, 2016 • ( 8 )

  

  I give in to the larger part of me that wants to taste him, touch him, smell him, look at him! – caress him, listen to him moan and see him wriggle with pleasure. Savor the inflections in his voice,… Read More ›

• Does It Really Matter…?

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 16, 2016 • ( 8 )

  

  I really enjoyed the comments on this – so I’m reblogging! (Adult content!)

• Happy Friday! I Still Love Black Men.

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 13, 2016 • ( 23 )

  

  Eventful week for me. Somewhat. I won’t rehash the details. Oh – two great things though. My daughter turned 22 yesterday. And I met up with a friend who I see on average, twice a year. I always rejoice in… Read More ›

• That Time I Went to London – And Paris | A Delayed Share (Part One)

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 10, 2016 • ( 22 )

  

  Sure I promised to share photos as soon as I got back. Sure it’s been eight months. And for certain, I’m ready to go again. Because as I told you here, more travel is in my immediate future. In the… Read More ›

• The Randomness – My Life 05052016

  By myfemalepersuasion on May 5, 2016 • ( 9 )

  

  Ever feel like you’re up to a bunch of stuff, but at the same time, you feel like you’re not doing much at all? I got used to juggling a lot all at once, what with raising three now-grown children…. Read More ›

• To My Cheerleaders

  By myfemalepersuasion on April 30, 2016 • ( 5 )

  

  I received a pleasant surprise today! (More on that later.) Me and my hyper self was all caught off guard, but excited nonetheless. I reached out to a few of my cheerleaders (including my daughter who was with me at… Read More ›

• Natural Progression in Relationships | Do What’s Right For You

  By myfemalepersuasion on April 29, 2016 • ( 17 )

  

  Always remember, what’s a natural progression for you may be totally different or out of sync for someone else. Remember Oprah considered marrying her long-time beau Steadman Graham because after decades of dating, taking their relationship to the “next level”… Read More ›