I would like for him to be circumcised. If he’s not, that would be okay too. I’m not sure if I would want to discuss it prior to that stage in our relationship. For one, I don’t want to talk about us doing that, I just want it to happen.
When I discover that extra skin, we will discuss it. I wouldn’t let that ruin my relationship. No one man is the same.😜
I never came across one until moving to Europe. I had a guy apologise for not being circumsized during the deed, but I had no clue! My preference is clean and disease free as I’m sure all would be but beyond that not sure it really matters. They aren’t the prettiest looking parts of a man (in my opnion) so it doesn’t really matter to me. I’d expect us to talk about it when the topic comes up if needed, but before. Unless he said something before then I guess we could talk about it.
I hear that. I’ve only dated one man who wasn’t, so in the states I’m guessing the majority of mothers circumcise sons (unless there is a religious purpose not to). Sounds like that ratio would be much different in Europe though. I think I read a comment on the initial blog that said no one in Germany does it.
Yeah it seems like in Europe they just aren’t as strict about it. Also I know it is done for sanitary purposes but I couldn’t imagine doing that to a child. So if I have a boy not sure what we’ll do. I guess I will get the info on it. My fiance is jewish by race but not in practice so I don’t think he’ll care. I’m inclined to not do it.
I have two sons and both had the procedure. In my personal experience, it’s more sanitary but that had nothing to do with my decision when they were born. Being so young, I probably just listened to my mother and the hospital staff.
I would like for him to be circumcised. If he’s not, that would be okay too. I’m not sure if I would want to discuss it prior to that stage in our relationship. For one, I don’t want to talk about us doing that, I just want it to happen.
When I discover that extra skin, we will discuss it. I wouldn’t let that ruin my relationship. No one man is the same.😜
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Lol. I love part about being spontaneous. It’s true. I would never think to ask about that up front either unless it bothered me one way or the other!
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I never came across one until moving to Europe. I had a guy apologise for not being circumsized during the deed, but I had no clue! My preference is clean and disease free as I’m sure all would be but beyond that not sure it really matters. They aren’t the prettiest looking parts of a man (in my opnion) so it doesn’t really matter to me. I’d expect us to talk about it when the topic comes up if needed, but before. Unless he said something before then I guess we could talk about it.
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but *not before.
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I wouldn’t think to ask that question before either.
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I hear that. I’ve only dated one man who wasn’t, so in the states I’m guessing the majority of mothers circumcise sons (unless there is a religious purpose not to). Sounds like that ratio would be much different in Europe though. I think I read a comment on the initial blog that said no one in Germany does it.
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Yeah it seems like in Europe they just aren’t as strict about it. Also I know it is done for sanitary purposes but I couldn’t imagine doing that to a child. So if I have a boy not sure what we’ll do. I guess I will get the info on it. My fiance is jewish by race but not in practice so I don’t think he’ll care. I’m inclined to not do it.
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I have two sons and both had the procedure. In my personal experience, it’s more sanitary but that had nothing to do with my decision when they were born. Being so young, I probably just listened to my mother and the hospital staff.
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