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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• Creepy Ass Liar – No Date

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 2, 2014 • ( 13 )

  

  It’s no surprise that I met a guy, right?  Where else but Times Square, New York City? Of course I was kinda mean mugging because it’s cold as hell. (Weather kicking my ass.) When Clyde approached, my gut told me… Read More ›

• Should I Bank On Him?

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 30, 2014 • ( 10 )

  Question of the day: I went to the bank earlier today to handle some business for my mother. The Relationship Manager was CUTE. I’m makeup free today, but of course he still had that mouth-wide-open look in his eyes. He… Read More ›

• Dear Friends

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 28, 2014 • ( 10 )

  

  Ever so often, I get tempted to complain about people who don’t support my endeavors – those who call on me to uplift and encourage them, but go dead silent when I mention my goals. Or flat-out ignore me. But… Read More ›

• Bossy

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 23, 2014 • ( 31 )

  

  I met this guy who tells me at least five times a day that I’m controlling. I say, if he can’t handle it, doesn’t appreciate it, or feel that my character is too flawed – he should have several seats…. Read More ›

• The Lowest Rung of Men – Cowards and Bitches

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 22, 2014 • ( 26 )

  

  PART I My first instinct was to send her a picture of her husband’s penis, but then I discovered that I deleted those text messages as soon as I received them. I had no use. (Just being honest.) Or pictures… Read More ›

• Still Dating – The Latest Latest

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 20, 2014 • ( 22 )

  

  Lately I’ve kept you guys completely out of the loop as far as my dating life. No worries. There haven’t been any fireworks. At all. Here’s a brief rundown. I wrote about Nigel in this piece. Based on my fantasy… Read More ›

• What Could Make Winter Better?

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 15, 2014 • ( 9 )

  

  Okay, so if you’re anywhere in the cold parts of the world you may understand what I’m feeling! Lethargic – from lack of sun!! These dark days can really do a number on you. Typically, the only way to keep… Read More ›

• 2013 in review – Here’s What Happened

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 7, 2014 • ( 8 )

  Not surprisingly, my top three posts were about finding AMAZING love, and dating a younger man. I have some experience with that! Special shout-out to the top commenters on my blog! I appreciate all y’all who read and offer opinions…. Read More ›