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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• Everywhere Is War (Self-Preservation)

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 25, 2014 • ( 0 )

  

  Love. To preserve oneself – to persevere in spite of, to care for your own self – is to be in war. Against anyone, any thing,  any structure, any ideas, that challenge or threaten your natural right to do so…. Read More ›

• Burlesque and Body Fat – Who Really Cares?

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 18, 2014 • ( 34 )

  

  Valentine’s Day came and went — thank goodness, because most of what I saw on social media were shots fired at single women and side chicks, a lot of bragging from women who received gifts, and a few explanations from… Read More ›

• Inspiration for Women — via The Single Woman

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 12, 2014 • ( 18 )

  

  I follow Mandy Hale (a/k/a The Single Woman) on Twitter and Facebook. According to her website, her mission is to inspire single women to live their best lives and to never, ever settle. Mandy’s inspirational messages are always on point. I’m… Read More ›

• Boobs, Hormones, Panties, and Courtship

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 10, 2014 • ( 12 )

  

  Sometimes I wonder why certain search terms (what readers enter into Google or other search engines) lead people to my blog. Looking at my site stats generated by WordPress, most people search for pictures of sexy couples, or some variation… Read More ›

• Why Men Loathe Desperate Women

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 9, 2014 • ( 35 )

  

    “Women are so desperate and aggressive these days. It’s sad. They wanna latch on after two weeks and start staking their claim. Bringing up the future and marriage. I like to be the one who’s doing the pursuing.”  … Read More ›

• Dear Male Friend – Get The Hell On

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 7, 2014 • ( 44 )

  Why would you need me when you have a woman (and children) at home? Just to backtrack, I had several missed calls from a friend over the past couple of weeks. I called back yesterday and found out he wanted… Read More ›

• Take Me – What A Man’s Voice Can Do

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 4, 2014 • ( 3 )

  

  These tweets from Demetria Lucas are so spot on. One of the things I enjoy most about having a man is listening to his soothing voice at night for the purpose of relaxation. What better way to wind down, even… Read More ›

• The Randomness – My Life 02032014

  By myfemalepersuasion on February 4, 2014 • ( 7 )

  

  I sat down to write tonight and my mind wasn’t centered on anything in particular. So without being too random (or just a bit random), I’ve been thinking about a few things: 1) My birthday is in August and I… Read More ›