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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• Shit That Happens Behind the Scenes

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 7, 2014 • ( 20 )

  

  It’s 11:20pm, and because I signed up for NaBloPoMo (agreeing to write one post a day),  I’m struggling to think of a topic to discuss with you and share it by 12 midnight. There’s always the shit that goes on… Read More ›

• Ferguson, MI | Expectations for Healing

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 5, 2014 • ( 10 )

  How did I process the events of Ferguson, Missouri in terms of healing? I can’t say that I have. I read blogs and social media, and when I’m at work I glance at Bloomblerg TV in closed captions. But I… Read More ›

• What Is Liberation?

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 4, 2014 • ( 0 )

  

  Love, healing and liberation go hand in hand.

• Bat Shit Crazy – The Road to Healing

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 3, 2014 • ( 12 )

  

    When was the last time you went “bat shit” crazy for someone? What did you do? Go into stalker mode? (Not hard to do with social media.) Key someone’s car? Pee on your ex’s personal belongings? Well now that… Read More ›

• I Need a Healing For My Soul – All September Long

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 2, 2014 • ( 10 )

  

    This month, BlogHer established a theme of HEALING for National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo), under the premise that “America needs to heal after the events of Ferguson, Missouri.” On August 9th, 2014, a police officer in that Ferguson gunned… Read More ›

• Protected: Fuck Friends With Benefits

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 1, 2014

  

  There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

• Choke Me and I’ll Choke Your Ass Back

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 17, 2014 • ( 45 )

  

  Women being dominated in the bedroom

• Please Don’t Ask Me To Wear “All White”

  By myfemalepersuasion on June 22, 2014 • ( 8 )

  It’s almost 1am on a Saturday night and I’m on this “all white” boat ride (I hate when people tell me what color to wear to an event – especially white! I wore multi-colored pants and a white tee, but… Read More ›