You know you’ve been chosen when a man says “I wanna marry you,” and there’s not one iota of doubt in your mind that he really means it. When he says “if anything ever happens to me while I’m at… Read More ›
Relationships
Subliminal Message to a Muse
Just because there’s a wedge of space and emotional distance between us, doesn’t mean my assessment of you – as someone special – was wrong. Because I still believe that I have the ability to sift for gems, and recognize… Read More ›
Pain is Pain – Conversation With A Transgender Woman
I never thought I would give advice to a transgender woman. I never thought I would hear a first hand account of the struggles in the life of a transgender woman – or have any reason to write about one. I… Read More ›
Dating A Younger Man – Is It Worth It?
In a previous post, Doctor’s Orders: Date A Younger Man, I filled you in on my 40-something year-old doctor’s relationship with a man in his 20’s, and her suggestion that I consider doing the same. I saw no problem with such a… Read More ›
In The Interest of Sharing – A Love Poem
When was the last time you fell in love? What was it about your lover that captured your mind and your hormones? Was it the way he walked? His scent? I bet you can think of a whole list of… Read More ›
It’s Not Hard to Say Goodbye
What do you do when someone you were fond of decides they’re no longer fond of you? Do you plead with them to stay in your life? Or do you say, “Oh well. Fuck you,” and keep it moving? I’ve… Read More ›
Snap Once for Sex and Twice for Romance
Remember the post I wrote a while ago titled Ladies: Our Male Friends Have Motives? About a long-time male friend who asked me to consider a serious relationship with him? And a series of dates that stopped short of romance?… Read More ›
Love Jones and Moscato
I arrived at Prince’s place one Saturday night in September at around 11:30pm, with Adele’s 21 CD and a bottle of wine in hand. “Here, I brought a copy of Adele’s cd for you to burn,” I said after greeting him with… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 