In August Trippin 2K13, I wrote about several exciting and crazy things that happened that month – one being my ex having a severe stroke. As a follow-up, I haven’t seen him since then, but he called me the other day… Read More ›
Emotional intimacy
Me On Perfectionism
Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life, and it is the main obstacle between you and a shitty first draft. I think perfectionism is based… Read More ›
November Trippin 2K13 (Day One)
Dear readers, I know it’s actually day two (November 2nd), and a bit too early to write about how my month shaped up (although I hope it turns out great!). But here’s how I started it off so far – with… Read More ›
Is 40 the new 25? (On Women Having Babies)
The body is ready to have babies. Nature wants it done then, when the body can handle it, not after 40, when the income can handle it. -Toni Morrison This quote resonates with me for two reasons. One – I’m… Read More ›
Quality Versus Quantity – A Sex Debate Among Women
Here’s the text that came through my phone at about 12pm yesterday— (Let’s call the sender ‘Lorelle.’): “What is more important? Quantity or quality sex? Your thoughts?” I started thinking… I answered, “Quality!” Lorelle demanded, “Explain!” Hmm. “I see quality… Read More ›
Pain is Pain – Conversation With A Transgender Woman
I never thought I would give advice to a transgender woman. I never thought I would hear a first hand account of the struggles in the life of a transgender woman – or have any reason to write about one. I… Read More ›
Dating A Younger Man – Is It Worth It?
In a previous post, Doctor’s Orders: Date A Younger Man, I filled you in on my 40-something year-old doctor’s relationship with a man in his 20’s, and her suggestion that I consider doing the same. I saw no problem with such a… Read More ›
Ladies: Our Male Friends Have Motives
I was talking to a “male friend” of 20 years today. I’ll give you the back story upfront. We met in summer school in Brooklyn between my Junior and senior year of high school. Things didn’t work out between us… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 