This. For those who ask: “Single?? YOU? WHY??” It’s sort of a compliment, but – I’m decidedly single. And definitely sexy. *snap, snap!* On a side note, I had a nice dinner last night. Conversation was great. I smiled the… Read More ›
Dating
Prince’s Lyrical Language
–Anne Lamott (excerpt from bird by bird). I’ve been in love with language since I was a little girl. I found nothing more pleasurable than getting lost in the characters’ worlds in books -eavesdropping on their conversations. I wrote and illustrated stories,… Read More ›
No Stalkers Please!! – The Date That Never Happened
Call me hasty, but “Larry” had too many damn red flags for me. So, I’m standing on line at Caffe Bene in Times Square getting my usual spinach, chicken wrap. In walks this tall dark-skinned guy, with a sharp, sharp hairline… Read More ›
Should We Entertain Our Exes? (Lunch with M&M)
The funny thing is I don’t remember him being so short. It didn’t matter though because I absolutely adored him. He played soccer, so his thighs were always poppin – just thick, and muscular, and well-formed despite his small frame…. Read More ›
Is 40 the new 25? (On Women Having Babies)
The body is ready to have babies. Nature wants it done then, when the body can handle it, not after 40, when the income can handle it. -Toni Morrison This quote resonates with me for two reasons. One – I’m… Read More ›
Green Card Lover
She married him for a green card. At 19 years old, “EB” was 15 years her junior, 6’5 and handsome, with pockets full of money. She – well, according to the sneaker box of pictures and letters he sent me… Read More ›
Hell No I’m Not Sending You No Damn Pic
“Can you send me a pic?” HELL NO! I’m really aggravated by this stupid request I get from guys. All the time. Via text message. I’m almost out of ways to respond nicely. But what I’m REALLY tempted to ask… Read More ›
Quality Versus Quantity – A Sex Debate Among Women
Here’s the text that came through my phone at about 12pm yesterday— (Let’s call the sender ‘Lorelle.’): “What is more important? Quantity or quality sex? Your thoughts?” I started thinking… I answered, “Quality!” Lorelle demanded, “Explain!” Hmm. “I see quality… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 