Here’s the text that came through my phone at about 12pm yesterday— (Let’s call the sender ‘Lorelle.’): “What is more important? Quantity or quality sex? Your thoughts?” I started thinking… I answered, “Quality!” Lorelle demanded, “Explain!” Hmm. “I see quality… Read More ›
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The Happily Married – Do They Really Exist?
While marriage is always a hot topic, it’s just not one that weighs heavily on my mind. I’m currently single! (Woop woop!) Did anyone see Oprah Winfrey’s interview of Jamie Foxx for her “Oprah’s Next Chapter” series on OWN a while back?… Read More ›
Six Key Pieces of Dating Advice for Single Men
I’m sure there are at least a million dating advice articles out there for single men. Well consider this number one million and one. Having been single for a while, and having actively dated part of that time, I’ve made… Read More ›
First Date – What’s Your Take?
For the first time, I met a guy through a friend. Let me give you some more details on that. He’s 34 years old. African American… And although told me he was 5’11, I’m pretty sure he’s closer to 5’7… Read More ›
Married Women Throwing Shade at Singles – A Bone To Pick
Today’s post inspired by — A long-time girlfriend (19 years) who recently invited me on a trip – NEXT YEAR to Soul Beach Music Festival in Aruba. As usual, she prefaced her invitation with “it’s really for couples but”… Read More ›
Dating A Younger Man – Is It Worth It?
In a previous post, Doctor’s Orders: Date A Younger Man, I filled you in on my 40-something year-old doctor’s relationship with a man in his 20’s, and her suggestion that I consider doing the same. I saw no problem with such a… Read More ›
I’m Married But Sex With My Lover Is Better
I was chatting with a girlfriend the other day over cocktails, and from general relationship banter, we moved on to the topic of infidelity. In reality, no relationship is perfect – and sometimes people cheat on their spouses or significant… Read More ›
When It’s Time
If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve had at least one serious relationship – potentially one or more failed relationships. And chances are, there were warning signs before the break up. In the beginning, you couldn’t get enough of one another. You sacrificed… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 