Is Amazing Worth Waiting For ? I posed that question some time ago, and most people, myself included, answered YES. In reading Mars and Venus on a Date (Again), I realized that men and women may take different emotional routes to… Read More ›
Inspiration
The Complexity of Black Women
I embrace my blackness, and my femininity, and the entire fabric that makes me who I am. My flaws, as well as my strengths. I enjoy being a black woman. Mara Brock Akil inspires me – to strengthen my writing… Read More ›
Who Do You Love?
Give them their flowers…
We Are All Products — of Time, Circumstances, and History
I am what time, circumstance, history, have made of me, certainly, but I am also, much more than that. So are we all. -James Baldwin So are we all…
Decidedly Single. Definitely Sexy.
This. For those who ask: “Single?? YOU? WHY??” It’s sort of a compliment, but – I’m decidedly single. And definitely sexy. *snap, snap!* On a side note, I had a nice dinner last night. Conversation was great. I smiled the… Read More ›
Hindsight Is Better Than 20/20
“You had everything. And when I had you, I kept you. I said let’s get married. Let’s go to the justice of the peace. And you said no.” Conversation with my ex, Michael. Somehow, his sincerity made me tear up…. Read More ›
Journal Entry % ₩£×+☆$@@ Dash 1
“Trust the process.” I gave my writing coach the serious side eye (in my head) when she kept repeating that, but the more I write, and the more stories and memories I get down, the closer I get to— [I’ve… Read More ›
What Are You Looking For? —A Lovesong
I like a man who can take charge and be honest with me about what he’s looking for – in a woman, in a potential relationship, etc. I like to know his intentions. Just last night, I asked someone “What… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 