“The only way to get through life is to know the worst things about it… I give you your problem back. You’re the nigger, baby. It isn’t me.” Inspired by a blog post on Black and Smart.
Today’s Post Inspired By
Hallelujah, It’s Raining Men!
OMG! I had a ball last night! Went out after work in Chelsea, NYC to celebrate my girlfriend’s birthday. Yayy!! Oh, the gorgeous black men I saw up in there… Owwww. Guy #1 I guess I’d been at the bar/lounge… Read More ›
Everywhere Is War (Self-Preservation)
Love. To preserve oneself – to persevere in spite of, to care for your own self – is to be in war. Against anyone, any thing, any structure, any ideas, that challenge or threaten your natural right to do so…. Read More ›
Boobs, Hormones, Panties, and Courtship
Sometimes I wonder why certain search terms (what readers enter into Google or other search engines) lead people to my blog. Looking at my site stats generated by WordPress, most people search for pictures of sexy couples, or some variation… Read More ›
Take Me – What A Man’s Voice Can Do
These tweets from Demetria Lucas are so spot on. One of the things I enjoy most about having a man is listening to his soothing voice at night for the purpose of relaxation. What better way to wind down, even… Read More ›
Happiness Is…
Believe it or not, training consistently in the gym (or outdoors during warm weather periods) brings me happiness. Feeling strong and fit brings out the very best in me. I was in the nail salon last Saturday, reading Viola… Read More ›
First Date – What’s Your Take?
For the first time, I met a guy through a friend. Let me give you some more details on that. He’s 34 years old. African American… And although told me he was 5’11, I’m pretty sure he’s closer to 5’7… Read More ›
Married Women Throwing Shade at Singles – A Bone To Pick
Today’s post inspired by — A long-time girlfriend (19 years) who recently invited me on a trip – NEXT YEAR to Soul Beach Music Festival in Aruba. As usual, she prefaced her invitation with “it’s really for couples but”… Read More ›
