In August Trippin 2K13, I wrote about several exciting and crazy things that happened that month – one being my ex having a severe stroke. As a follow-up, I haven’t seen him since then, but he called me the other day… Read More ›
Inspiration
Me On Perfectionism
Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life, and it is the main obstacle between you and a shitty first draft. I think perfectionism is based… Read More ›
November Trippin 2K13 (Day One)
Dear readers, I know it’s actually day two (November 2nd), and a bit too early to write about how my month shaped up (although I hope it turns out great!). But here’s how I started it off so far – with… Read More ›
The Freedom to BE
Freeing yourself was one thing; claiming ownership of that freed self was another. — from Toni Morrison’s BELOVED
Hell No I’m Not Sending You No Damn Pic
“Can you send me a pic?” HELL NO! I’m really aggravated by this stupid request I get from guys. All the time. Via text message. I’m almost out of ways to respond nicely. But what I’m REALLY tempted to ask… Read More ›
August Trippin 2K13
I’ve been having a crazy month of August. It started off in Puerto Rico actually. Six days in a luxury hotel in San Juan – only to arrive at John F. Kennedy airport on Sunday, August 4th and later hit… Read More ›
It’s Funny How – In The Midst of Crisis
It’s funny how, in the midst of crisis – the gripping kind that jolts you awake in the middle of the night to heart palpitations and sucks the air out of your windpipe – you think about getting over to… Read More ›
Pain is Pain – Conversation With A Transgender Woman
I never thought I would give advice to a transgender woman. I never thought I would hear a first hand account of the struggles in the life of a transgender woman – or have any reason to write about one. I… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 