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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• Kissing On a First Date. What’s YOUR Norm?

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 16, 2013 • ( 12 )

  

  Some people think my “rule” of not kissing on a first date is a bit far-fetched, but hey, that’s my norm. I’m told that most women do much more than that on first dates, so no man is going to… Read More ›

• His Waiting Place (Not About Last Night)

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 15, 2013 • ( 16 )

  

  I woke up this morning with my hands in my panties Both hands clutching my fatty pube I was so controlled at dinner,  keeping my eyes focused on his. Smiling on cue But really I couldn’t help it Wondering what… Read More ›

• What Men Really Want To Know About Women

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 13, 2013 • ( 26 )

  

  In two and a half years of sporadic dating, I’ve had lots of conversation and learned plenty about men, and a lot about myself. I decided to share a few common questions I get on dates. Here we go. 1…. Read More ›

• Decidedly Single. Definitely Sexy.

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 12, 2013 • ( 22 )

  

  This. For those who ask: “Single?? YOU? WHY??” It’s sort of a compliment,  but – I’m decidedly single. And definitely sexy. *snap, snap!* On a side note, I had a nice dinner last night. Conversation was great. I smiled the… Read More ›

• How to Feel Your Need for a Man & Find Lasting Love

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 11, 2013 • ( 15 )

  

  Naturally, I was sitting in bed on a Sunday night – reading, and crafting blog posts, because NaBloPoMo has me completely obsessed about posting something every single day for the month of November. Plus I was conversing with a friend… Read More ›

• Slander

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 10, 2013 • ( 1 )

  

  My key witness is speechless Witness to the private persona             The insecurities             pain             tears             anxiety             The not knowing             Losses… Read More ›

• Hindsight Is Better Than 20/20

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 9, 2013 • ( 6 )

  

  “You had everything. And when I had you, I kept you. I said let’s get married. Let’s go to the justice of the peace. And you said no.” Conversation with my ex, Michael. Somehow, his sincerity made me tear up…. Read More ›

• Journal Entry % ₩£×+☆$@@ Dash 1

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 8, 2013 • ( 5 )

  “Trust the process.” I gave my writing coach the serious side eye (in my head) when she kept repeating that, but the more I write, and the more stories and memories I get down, the closer I get to— [I’ve… Read More ›