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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• hi 2014!!

  By myfemalepersuasion on January 1, 2014 • ( 13 )

  

  I hope you all brought in the NEW YEAR the best way you saw fit! Welcome 2014! Thank you all for rocking with me. I blogged more in 2013 than I ever did in my whole life!! Shared quite a… Read More ›

• Settle For What?

  By myfemalepersuasion on December 20, 2013 • ( 2 )

  

  A message about liberation, for the ladies. Never Settle. –Via Mandy Hale a/k/a The Single Woman’s Facebook Page Be sure to “like” My Female Persuasion on Facebook as well. Cheers.

• What Makes A Man or Woman Special

  By myfemalepersuasion on December 15, 2013 • ( 6 )

  

  Is Amazing Worth Waiting For  ? I posed that question some time ago, and most people, myself included, answered YES. In reading Mars and Venus on a Date (Again), I realized that men and women may take different emotional routes to… Read More ›

• I Did It!!

  By myfemalepersuasion on December 9, 2013 • ( 2 )

  

  Unfortunately, it’s not what you’re thinking. I haven’t met a gorgeous guy and made wild, passionate— I’m totally digressing here. What I mean is, I successfully completed NaBloPoMo! You know — one blog post every single day for the month… Read More ›

• Last Ditch Effort!

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 30, 2013 • ( 4 )

  

  Today is the last day of NaBloPoMo! I successfully posted an article every single day for the month of November! Woop woop! Thank you for joining me. I appreciate you reading! Tomorrow, I’ll write a summary post to share some… Read More ›

• Do Me. Tonight. Please.

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 29, 2013 • ( 9 )

  

  Eight months without sex is nothing. Sharma’s friend Naomi had been celibate for three years when she met her current beau. And he happened to be a perfect match, both physically and sexually. Naomi is 5’2 and rail thin with… Read More ›

• Heaven or Hell

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 28, 2013 • ( 2 )

  

  Happy Thanksgiving to those who are celebrating! I’m grateful for many things and I count my readers and supporters among my blessings! Thanks. Today I’m plugging my son’s song. He wrote and performed the rap verses and produced the track…. Read More ›

• The Complexity of Black Women

  By myfemalepersuasion on November 27, 2013 • ( 12 )

  

  I embrace my blackness, and my femininity, and the entire fabric that makes me who I am. My flaws, as well as my strengths. I enjoy being a black woman. Mara Brock Akil inspires me – to strengthen my writing… Read More ›