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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.

Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.

• The Men I’ve Loved | Did I Chose? Or Was it Fate?

  By myfemalepersuasion on September 3, 2015 • ( 7 )

  

  In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Que Sera Sera.” As a teen, I longed for someone to love me. To care about me. I had a son – at 16. In my 20’s, I wanted a supportive partner… Read More ›

• The One Who Got Away

  By myfemalepersuasion on August 11, 2015 • ( 4 )

  

  At least three men from my past consider me the one who got away. Among them are my first boyfriend who went to prison when I was 18. Altogether, he served 12 years (I was devastated for at least two)…. Read More ›

• Choose Love Over Fear | Notes

  By myfemalepersuasion on August 9, 2015 • ( 0 )

  

  Mood:

• What Are You Looking For? —A Lovesong

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 31, 2015 • ( 0 )

  

  Originally posted on My Female Persuasion:
  I like a man who can take charge and be honest with me about what he’s looking for – in a woman,  in a potential relationship, etc. I like to know his intentions. Just…

• Where is the Proposal, the Ring, the Children – and My Phone Call? (Convos with Friends)

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 29, 2015 • ( 6 )

  

  I caught up with a friend yesterday at Bill’s Bar and Burger in Rockefeller Center (New York City!) This is a pic of my doable, but plain house salad topped with a veggie patty (I’m counting calories). I did drizzle… Read More ›

• Harassed on the Street | I Could Have Choked Him!

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 27, 2015 • ( 28 )

  

  I don’t condone violence, but in certain instances, a woman has to defend herself. I never got involved when the street harassment debate took over the Internet late last year. Because it’s rare that I feel threatened by a man… Read More ›

• Do Me Tonight Please! But Only with a Big Oiled Ass

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 23, 2015 • ( 25 )

  

  I can show you better than I can tell you. Internet trolls, or horny folks trolling for internet porn – are generally in the mood to “get done” while viewing big oiled asses. Right behind that bunch, are conissuiers of… Read More ›

• Countdown to London and Paris! (Part 2)

  By myfemalepersuasion on July 22, 2015 • ( 10 )

  

  Yesterday I shared with you some of the glorious things I hope to do when I get to London – in less than 60 days! Oh my gosh, the trip is in like a month and a half. I’m still… Read More ›