To be honest, I thought all those one off dates would somehow lead to marriage. I thought that three years of the single life and being super picky about who I spent time with would help me refine my tastes… Read More ›
Reflections
Should Your Man Be Super Tight with His Ex?
You meet a great man, and he ticks all the boxes on your list – he’s the right height, the right shape, smart, handsome, well dressed, well traveled and then some – anything you’ve envisioned. And — he has an… Read More ›
Unconditional Love – Doesn’t It Start with Love of Self?
What’s been going on lately? I feel like I’m chugging along, having revelation after revelation about myself and like sharing it all would sound absolutely crazy. It would. You know how you go through all this growth and then look… Read More ›
Writing About My Children – I Never Have
Of course my kids’ stories aren’t mine to tell. That will never be my mission because I am a fierce protector of those I love. But lately, I’m writing a bit more from a “Mommy perspective,” which I haven’t done… Read More ›
Are You Qualified to Marry a Great Leader?
Have you seen the movie Selma? Or read about Doctor Martin Luther King, Jr? Have you heard of Bob Marley and the Wailers? I bet you have. Last weekend, I was watching a documentary on Netflix (Marley) about Bob Marley’s… Read More ›
Birthday Cards from My Ex
I spent eleven years with my ex “M.” And every time I’m on a cleaning spree, (Today I’m going through old magazines – I have a collection. Smh.) I find cards from him (birthday, mother’s day, etc.). At the time,… Read More ›
Emotions Running High
It’s gratitude. LB came bearing gifts. The gift of expansion. The gift of time and space. The gift of patience. Insight. Encouragement. I can only appreciate all of that by looking at my “self,” and how I’ve shifted certain perspectives…. Read More ›
Results are In! – How My Blog Fared the Year I Stopped Blogging About Dating
It was in November 2014 that I announced “my promise to him” – about keeping relationship details under wraps. I knew I wanted to keep this new relationship sacred anyway and didn’t intend to spill much, so when LB asked… Read More ›
My Female Persuasion 