It’s easy to look at someone else and find fault with them, or summize that they have “issues” because they won’t act right – or behave in ways that please you. But there’s also a lot of value in stopping… Read More ›
Baggage in Relationships
Happy Friday! I Still Love Black Men.
Eventful week for me. Somewhat. I won’t rehash the details. Oh – two great things though. My daughter turned 22 yesterday. And I met up with a friend who I see on average, twice a year. I always rejoice in… Read More ›
Lemonade? No – Thank You!
Prince, and details surrounding his life, artistry (genius, really), and death are still trending on social media since word of his passing six days ago. Much of the world is still in mourning. I have to say I’m inspired by… Read More ›
The Dating Game – How Three Years of One-Off Dates Helped Shape My Perspective on Marriage
To be honest, I thought all those one off dates would somehow lead to marriage. I thought that three years of the single life and being super picky about who I spent time with would help me refine my tastes… Read More ›
Should Your Man Be Super Tight with His Ex?
You meet a great man, and he ticks all the boxes on your list – he’s the right height, the right shape, smart, handsome, well dressed, well traveled and then some – anything you’ve envisioned. And — he has an… Read More ›
Excess Baggage (Thank you. I Release You!)
I’ve been meaning to write a follow up on this post I put up a few weeks ago. The whole premise was that we should try to heal our issues before showing up to new relationships with “old shit” (I.e…. Read More ›
When You Show Up to a New Relationship with Old Shit
Several of my women friends have gone on dating hiatuses at some point or another. I can’t tell you their reasons because I don’t know. But anytime I’ve taken a break – well first off, I’ve been in long term… Read More ›
