Question of the day:
I went to the bank earlier today to handle some business for my mother.
The Relationship Manager was CUTE.
I’m makeup free today, but of course he still had that mouth-wide-open look in his eyes. He made my transactions seamless while making small talk.
1) His bank is in the building where I work.
2) I make it a point never to ask guys out.
3) I came back to my desk and immediately sent him a personal email, thanking him for his services.
4) His response: “It was such a pleasure. Call me if you need anything at all.
5) Ugh! I’ve had freaking gutter brain all day, but I can’t call for that!!!
Readers: What are your thoughts on this situation? What would YOU do?
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Lol. I know that’s right! ^.^
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I would reply “Anything?…” just to see his response.
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Lol. That’s a good one.
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haha@ relationship manager. People and titles
Well since you don’t ask guys out there’s really nothing for you to do. All you can do is email him to see how he’s doing and hopes he makes the first move. You can also stop in and see how he is doing in hopes that he makes the first move.
If you change your stance on asking guys out then you should go back in there and ask him to meet you for a drink. “Hey relationship manager, on (whatever night), I’m going to grab a glass of wine and chill. You should join me.”
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Lol. Thx Reema. Yea, I doubt he is going to risk his position (what if I called harassment?). And I wouldn’t want ppl emailing me to get personal via work email. If I feel so inclined, I’ll stop in and personally give him my card/personal number and leave the ball in his court. I loved the look on his face. He was stammering. I said “I’m confused. What?” Lmao.
Also, sometimes you have to do what you’ve never done before to get what you want. (Winks)
By the way, I just called him by the title on his business card. Tuh!!
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Giving him your number works also. I’m sure he will be able to take that hint. The game does go over a lot of guys heads though. Keep us posted
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I will. Yes it does! Damn.
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I love this blog! I think I’m addicted! haha
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Haha! Sweet of you. Thanks!
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